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Finding The Right Cigar
Finding The Right Cigar
by: Catherine Olivia
You've decided that you want to try smoking a cigar. You're intrigued by them, and by the people that smoke them. To some, cigars are a status symbol, a symbol of wealth and class. People describe them like they would a fine wine. A cigar can have full to medium body or a smooth and creamy medium bodied taste or they talk about the exceptional construction and cool smoke. What does all this mean and how do you go about choosing a cigar?
Before we go any further, know the health risks. Cigars are bad for you. They contain nicotine which we know is addictive, which is bad for you. People can get cancer from smoking cigars. According to the National Institutes of Health "people smoking as few as one to two cigars per day have much higher risk of oral, lung, and esophageal cancer, and cancer of the larynx, as compared to non-smokers." But, you're an adult and you've made your decision. Also here we'll mention that cigar smoke is much heavier and smellier than cigarette smoke, which some find offensive.
So, back to choosing. There are man-made cigars and machine made cigars. Needless to say, most things hand made are superior to machine made, and that goes for cigars. A handmade cigar is made from leaves picked, sorted and bundled by an individual cigar maker. A premium hand rolled cigar will have leaves of the same length carefully rolled. It's the skill of the hand roller that insures a smooth and even burn.
Machine made cigars often use ends and smaller pieces of tobacco leaves, called short filler. Cigar aficionados say that this short filler draws and burns inferiorly. A well made cigar should have a full and smooth draw.
A cigar is rated on it's length and ring gauge. The length of cigars runs between 4 inches to 8 inches, with the most common cigar length being 5 to 6 inches. The ring gauge refers to the diameter of the cigar. This ring gauge is measured in 64th of an inch. The largest ring gauge of a cigar is 52, therefore it would be 52/64ths of an inch in diameter. Generally the larger the ring gauge the more fuller flavored the cigar will be.
Cigar colors are referred to as claro and oscuro. Claro being light brown and oscuro being almost black. The darker the cigar the more full bodied and sweeter it will be. The darker the tobacco the more mature it is. Some tobacco is aged up to three years before it is rolled. A lighter colored cigar will be lighter in flavor.
Is is suggested that for a beginning cigar smoker that they choose a smaller and milder gauge cigar, such as a petit corona or panatela, then move up to a bigger size, and more robust flavor as they are comfortable.
Don't be afraid to try different brands. You'll notice your tastes will mature and change. The final choice of the right cigar depends on your own taste preference.
by: Catherine Olivia
You've decided that you want to try smoking a cigar. You're intrigued by them, and by the people that smoke them. To some, cigars are a status symbol, a symbol of wealth and class. People describe them like they would a fine wine. A cigar can have full to medium body or a smooth and creamy medium bodied taste or they talk about the exceptional construction and cool smoke. What does all this mean and how do you go about choosing a cigar?
Before we go any further, know the health risks. Cigars are bad for you. They contain nicotine which we know is addictive, which is bad for you. People can get cancer from smoking cigars. According to the National Institutes of Health "people smoking as few as one to two cigars per day have much higher risk of oral, lung, and esophageal cancer, and cancer of the larynx, as compared to non-smokers." But, you're an adult and you've made your decision. Also here we'll mention that cigar smoke is much heavier and smellier than cigarette smoke, which some find offensive.
So, back to choosing. There are man-made cigars and machine made cigars. Needless to say, most things hand made are superior to machine made, and that goes for cigars. A handmade cigar is made from leaves picked, sorted and bundled by an individual cigar maker. A premium hand rolled cigar will have leaves of the same length carefully rolled. It's the skill of the hand roller that insures a smooth and even burn.
Machine made cigars often use ends and smaller pieces of tobacco leaves, called short filler. Cigar aficionados say that this short filler draws and burns inferiorly. A well made cigar should have a full and smooth draw.
A cigar is rated on it's length and ring gauge. The length of cigars runs between 4 inches to 8 inches, with the most common cigar length being 5 to 6 inches. The ring gauge refers to the diameter of the cigar. This ring gauge is measured in 64th of an inch. The largest ring gauge of a cigar is 52, therefore it would be 52/64ths of an inch in diameter. Generally the larger the ring gauge the more fuller flavored the cigar will be.
Cigar colors are referred to as claro and oscuro. Claro being light brown and oscuro being almost black. The darker the cigar the more full bodied and sweeter it will be. The darker the tobacco the more mature it is. Some tobacco is aged up to three years before it is rolled. A lighter colored cigar will be lighter in flavor.
Is is suggested that for a beginning cigar smoker that they choose a smaller and milder gauge cigar, such as a petit corona or panatela, then move up to a bigger size, and more robust flavor as they are comfortable.
Don't be afraid to try different brands. You'll notice your tastes will mature and change. The final choice of the right cigar depends on your own taste preference.
Russian Women Are Passionate Women
Russian Women Are Passionate Women
by: John Kunkle
Russian women are passionate. Once you have lived with a Russian woman, many other women pale in comparison.
Russians in general are very emotional in their private lives, contrasting with their stoic public face. A Russian woman is a very emotional creature. This is deceiving at first because they are usually reserved in their demeanor.
They are passionate in every way. They live life passionately. They are very feminine. They are also very strong willed. They are very intelligent. They have the emotional volatility of a racehorse.
You have never made love to as passionate a woman as a Russian woman. You will never doubt how much you please her sexually. She will remind you again and again. She may tear the flesh off your back.
She can get so angry she will throw things and break things. When she is incensed with you, she will call you names and hurl verbal insults at you to see how much you can take.
She is testing you to see how much you love her.
When you make up, she will beg your forgiveness and show you tenderness that you have never seen before. She will kiss you, cuddle you, and admonish herself for making you unhappy with her.
Russian women are passionate, but they are not easy. They will challenge you as a man in every way. They are not for the faint of heart. They are not for the weak of will or the frail of character.
They are the stone on which you sharpen your blade. The power and magnetism of their femininity will polarize and strengthen your masculinity. To handle such a woman, you will have to become a better man.
They will challenge you to become more of a man. You will either meet their challenge or fall away.
They will make you become a man among men, a force upon nature. A man to be reckoned with. It takes a powerful man to handle a powerful woman.
by: John Kunkle
Russian women are passionate. Once you have lived with a Russian woman, many other women pale in comparison.
Russians in general are very emotional in their private lives, contrasting with their stoic public face. A Russian woman is a very emotional creature. This is deceiving at first because they are usually reserved in their demeanor.
They are passionate in every way. They live life passionately. They are very feminine. They are also very strong willed. They are very intelligent. They have the emotional volatility of a racehorse.
You have never made love to as passionate a woman as a Russian woman. You will never doubt how much you please her sexually. She will remind you again and again. She may tear the flesh off your back.
She can get so angry she will throw things and break things. When she is incensed with you, she will call you names and hurl verbal insults at you to see how much you can take.
She is testing you to see how much you love her.
When you make up, she will beg your forgiveness and show you tenderness that you have never seen before. She will kiss you, cuddle you, and admonish herself for making you unhappy with her.
Russian women are passionate, but they are not easy. They will challenge you as a man in every way. They are not for the faint of heart. They are not for the weak of will or the frail of character.
They are the stone on which you sharpen your blade. The power and magnetism of their femininity will polarize and strengthen your masculinity. To handle such a woman, you will have to become a better man.
They will challenge you to become more of a man. You will either meet their challenge or fall away.
They will make you become a man among men, a force upon nature. A man to be reckoned with. It takes a powerful man to handle a powerful woman.
Online Dating: How To Play It Smart To Attract More Women
Online Dating: How To Play It Smart To Attract More Women
by: Grant Adams
Millions are doing it. 75% in England. 57% in the United States. We’re busy. We search for books, toys, gifts, investment data and gossip online. So why not go online in search of women?
It’s effective, time-efficient and casts a far wider net than you could ever do trawling bars, bookstores and yoga classes one at a time.
And the best part is – women on dating sites are there because they want to meet guys. They’re busy just like you. Teachers who don’t meet men over 12 years of age on a daily basis. Nurses whose only male contact are invalids. Women in fashion or retail who meet nothing but other women and gay men. And of course, a smorgasbord of single mothers who can’t run around at night but who are looking for men to have some fun in their lives, date or marry. These women are dedicated.
You can’t say that that about that hottie you’re dying to approach in the office down the hallway. Or that slinky beauty you’ve just spotted at Starbucks.
Some men are still shy or embarrassed about online dating. Get over it.
From a business point of view – it’s a hungry market – and it’s ravenous for you.
If you play it smart.
And playing it smart means standing out from the boring, repetitive, colorless profiles that men put up one after another.
You must approach dating in the online age with a combination of both ancient socio-biological wisdom about triggering attraction in women, and the media savvy of modern communications science in a “Blink!” world.
Most men throw up their facts on their profiles. But to get outstanding results, you have to approach online dating the same way you would if you were seeking success in the financial markets or your own career. It’s about deploying expertise and being professional about your efforts.
And to be a pro, you must master four important elements.:
1) How to read a woman’s profile for key signifiers -- hidden packets of information that contain the key to her heart and mind (and the rest of her body, too).
2) How to seed your profile with your own key signifiers that suggest…
* An easy, strong masculinity
* Sensual promise without sexual creepiness
* Gentle humor
* Brass balls and
* The subtle, unstated promise a more exciting life than she has now.
3) How to test your profile to daily increase your magnetizing “electric contrasts.” Your electric contrasts are there to tantalize women reading your profile, disallowing them to pigeonhole you and just move on. Most men project a limited vision of themselves and wonder why they never get responses.
Ask any woman – most men’s profiles leave them cold and uninspired.
But master these tactics, and you will have more dates than nights to meet them. The electricity you can create with a well thought out profile will be greeted not only with open arms, but with relief!
by: Grant Adams
Millions are doing it. 75% in England. 57% in the United States. We’re busy. We search for books, toys, gifts, investment data and gossip online. So why not go online in search of women?
It’s effective, time-efficient and casts a far wider net than you could ever do trawling bars, bookstores and yoga classes one at a time.
And the best part is – women on dating sites are there because they want to meet guys. They’re busy just like you. Teachers who don’t meet men over 12 years of age on a daily basis. Nurses whose only male contact are invalids. Women in fashion or retail who meet nothing but other women and gay men. And of course, a smorgasbord of single mothers who can’t run around at night but who are looking for men to have some fun in their lives, date or marry. These women are dedicated.
You can’t say that that about that hottie you’re dying to approach in the office down the hallway. Or that slinky beauty you’ve just spotted at Starbucks.
Some men are still shy or embarrassed about online dating. Get over it.
From a business point of view – it’s a hungry market – and it’s ravenous for you.
If you play it smart.
And playing it smart means standing out from the boring, repetitive, colorless profiles that men put up one after another.
You must approach dating in the online age with a combination of both ancient socio-biological wisdom about triggering attraction in women, and the media savvy of modern communications science in a “Blink!” world.
Most men throw up their facts on their profiles. But to get outstanding results, you have to approach online dating the same way you would if you were seeking success in the financial markets or your own career. It’s about deploying expertise and being professional about your efforts.
And to be a pro, you must master four important elements.:
1) How to read a woman’s profile for key signifiers -- hidden packets of information that contain the key to her heart and mind (and the rest of her body, too).
2) How to seed your profile with your own key signifiers that suggest…
* An easy, strong masculinity
* Sensual promise without sexual creepiness
* Gentle humor
* Brass balls and
* The subtle, unstated promise a more exciting life than she has now.
3) How to test your profile to daily increase your magnetizing “electric contrasts.” Your electric contrasts are there to tantalize women reading your profile, disallowing them to pigeonhole you and just move on. Most men project a limited vision of themselves and wonder why they never get responses.
Ask any woman – most men’s profiles leave them cold and uninspired.
But master these tactics, and you will have more dates than nights to meet them. The electricity you can create with a well thought out profile will be greeted not only with open arms, but with relief!
Is Male Enhancement Going Mainstream?
Is Male Enhancement Going Mainstream?
by: Bobby Walker
There is a new game in town and it's called "Male Enhancement." No longer is this subject hush hush among the male members of society. Penile enhancement has popped up everywhere, including primetime television. So how many guys are looking for male enhancement? According to Internet stats, over 500,000 searches per month and growing!
Guys will be forever obsessed with their size that no amount of therapy or reassurance will cure. If the truth be told, the majority of women really don't care about size near as much as the male ego does. Women want to be romanced and adorned by their male counterparts.
The real reason why many men seek out male enhancement is to feel better about themselves and honestly, that's all that really matters. Having self confidence goes a really long way with women and if a guy feels really great about himself because of male enhancement, then why not?
There is a wide variety of enhancement methods out and also a lot of scams. It's tough to sift through all the B.S. to get to the stuff that really works. Enhancement pills do increase blood flow and expand blood vessels, but the effects only last as long as you take the supplements.
Lately, there has been a lot of press about traction devices that stretch the male member and hold it in place. There has been private studies and reports in health magazines showing proven results. Yet the medical community is reluctant to embrace the findings.
I think it's just a matter of time until one of the big pharmaceutical companies see what type of market they are dealing with and come out with a device that's endorsed by prominent members of the medical community nationwide.
If that happens, it wouldn't be surprising to see male enhancement devices in big name chain fitness stores like GNC or Vitamin Shoppe. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with this. It just goes back to the "feeling good about yourself thing."
Women get the hair and nails done and go shopping, so what's wrong with guys wanting to feel good about themselves? One thing is for sure, male enhancement is here to stay and the market is just going to get bigger. So wouldn't it be a lot easier to embrace the change than to shun it?
by: Bobby Walker
There is a new game in town and it's called "Male Enhancement." No longer is this subject hush hush among the male members of society. Penile enhancement has popped up everywhere, including primetime television. So how many guys are looking for male enhancement? According to Internet stats, over 500,000 searches per month and growing!
Guys will be forever obsessed with their size that no amount of therapy or reassurance will cure. If the truth be told, the majority of women really don't care about size near as much as the male ego does. Women want to be romanced and adorned by their male counterparts.
The real reason why many men seek out male enhancement is to feel better about themselves and honestly, that's all that really matters. Having self confidence goes a really long way with women and if a guy feels really great about himself because of male enhancement, then why not?
There is a wide variety of enhancement methods out and also a lot of scams. It's tough to sift through all the B.S. to get to the stuff that really works. Enhancement pills do increase blood flow and expand blood vessels, but the effects only last as long as you take the supplements.
Lately, there has been a lot of press about traction devices that stretch the male member and hold it in place. There has been private studies and reports in health magazines showing proven results. Yet the medical community is reluctant to embrace the findings.
I think it's just a matter of time until one of the big pharmaceutical companies see what type of market they are dealing with and come out with a device that's endorsed by prominent members of the medical community nationwide.
If that happens, it wouldn't be surprising to see male enhancement devices in big name chain fitness stores like GNC or Vitamin Shoppe. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with this. It just goes back to the "feeling good about yourself thing."
Women get the hair and nails done and go shopping, so what's wrong with guys wanting to feel good about themselves? One thing is for sure, male enhancement is here to stay and the market is just going to get bigger. So wouldn't it be a lot easier to embrace the change than to shun it?
Things Women Want In A Man
Things Women Want In A Man
by: Rod Cortez
I met Jessica, a 24 year old law student who modeled lingerie to help defray the costs of her education, a few months ago in a nice lounge. I was there with
a couple friends of mine, enjoying a nice bottle of Pinot Noir wine. One of the things that a Date Pro has is the ability to be aware of his environment,
even if part of his focus is somewhere else. In this case I was focused on conversation with my friends. Out of the corner of my eye I noticed a man walk
up to a very attractive young lady at the bar, offering to buy her a drink. She wasn't interested so she thanked him for the offer and continued munching on
what appeared to be an appetizer.
This man wouldn't take "no" for an answer and started giving her a hard time. I could tell from her body language that she was ready to do something drastic
such as ask for security or start yelling at him. Here's a pointer for you: one of the best ways to meet a woman is to rescue her from a man or group of
men that she has zero interest in. After some practice in reading bodylanguage, you'll pick up on this. It was my cue to leave my friends for a moment and
see if I could do my good deed for the evening. So I walked toward her and the man that would not leave her alone.
"Excuse me honey," I said innocently, but deeply, firmly, and quite loud, making sure that I made eye contact with her so she knew exactly what I was trying
to do. "I'm so sorry I didn't see you when I walked in here, I ran into Ken and Ronald and ended up chatting with them. When they saw me they were like
'Hey Rod! Over here!' Since I didn't see you I hung out with them for a while. I think I need to be flogged, though I think I prefer a spanking (smirk or
eye wink)."
You'll notice that I found a way to include my name in my initial approach so she would know my name. A couple of seconds passed and those two seconds felt
like an hour as I wasn't sure if she would play along, not that it really mattered. Most women usually do because they pick up on subtle clues, cues, and
hints far better than men do. This was one of those times. "I was wondering where you were honey," she said, trying her hardest not to laugh.
"Oh," started the man who was bothering her, "If you were expecting someone why didn't you say anything?"
I didn't want his badgering to continue so I simply looked at him, then looked at her, then looked at him and said, "Hey buddy, if you don't mind, I'd like
to spend a moment alone with my fiancée."
He knew that he had lost. "Oh man, sorry. Later." And off he went.
As he was making his way out of our little circle, I leaned in and whispered in her ear, "Ok, once he's out of sight, I'm going back to my friends. By the
way, my name really IS Rod." Then I grabbed a stool, gave her a wink, and she leaned into my direction and whispered, "Thank you." Sometimes the damsel in
distress that you saved appreciates what you did and prefers that you be on your way, but sometimes they don't want you to leave. "My name is Jessica," she
continued, "Do you really have to leave? Why don't you hang out for a bit?" Aha!
"So Rod, what is it that you do?", Jessica asked with a sincerity not usually found in these kind of places. Normally I don't like telling women what I do
for a living until after a few dates, but it's only a guideline, not some rule written in stone. I like to go with my gut most of the time, since that is a
sign that a person's game has evolved. Jessica was beautiful and she had this very innocent, cute face that made me want to protect her, this was
evolutionary psychology and biology at work, not my inner wussbag coming out. One has to keep that under control at all times during an initial meeting with
a stranger.
"Let's just say that I help men figure out what they really want out of life," I said with a grin on my face. She accepted that for the time being and we
began talking about that. Eventually I asked her what she thought a healthy, attractive, mature woman wants in a man. "Leave out the stuff about 'I like to
laugh' or a 'man who knows how to treat a lady' type stuff. I'm looking for specifics."
"Well," Jessica started, "You observed one thing we don't like and that is to keep trying to pick up on us after we've made it clear we're not interested.
Sometimes I want to go out and not want to meet new people. Sometimes I just want a drink or dance or just hang out. I hate it when a man is too pushy."
"Please continue, this is fascinating," I remarked.
"I have a part-time job that pays really well, so I don't need a man to help me out financially in any way," Jessica continued on with a look of serious
passion in her face. "You know what I think most 'healthy' women want? They want a man who can take care of himself. He might even be broke today but if
he has a career or is in school or started a new business, a woman can see that he has ambition and potential. I think a lot of women look more into the
future than men do. A man should be financially stable. That doesn't mean he has to be rich, he should be good with his money and not spend it on frivolous
things."
"You mean like a Coach hand bag, Mac make up, or Jimmy Choo shoes right?" I interjected with a teasing tone to my voice. Jessica giggled.
"Something like that, silly," I could tell Jessica was a fun gal. "I know one thing I like is when my man plans out a whole evening for both us. I like it
when he plans ahead. I have a friend named Monica who was dating this really unattractive man, but she didn't care. If you can make her laugh she is all
yours. Tell your clients that if a woman is laughing at his jokes then she likes him."
"So," I chimed in, "What you're really looking for is a confident man who has a plan for his life, has potential, a sense of humor, financially stable, and
knows how to make a woman feel sexy and good, right?"
"Absolutely!" Jessica exclaimed.
by: Rod Cortez
I met Jessica, a 24 year old law student who modeled lingerie to help defray the costs of her education, a few months ago in a nice lounge. I was there with
a couple friends of mine, enjoying a nice bottle of Pinot Noir wine. One of the things that a Date Pro has is the ability to be aware of his environment,
even if part of his focus is somewhere else. In this case I was focused on conversation with my friends. Out of the corner of my eye I noticed a man walk
up to a very attractive young lady at the bar, offering to buy her a drink. She wasn't interested so she thanked him for the offer and continued munching on
what appeared to be an appetizer.
This man wouldn't take "no" for an answer and started giving her a hard time. I could tell from her body language that she was ready to do something drastic
such as ask for security or start yelling at him. Here's a pointer for you: one of the best ways to meet a woman is to rescue her from a man or group of
men that she has zero interest in. After some practice in reading bodylanguage, you'll pick up on this. It was my cue to leave my friends for a moment and
see if I could do my good deed for the evening. So I walked toward her and the man that would not leave her alone.
"Excuse me honey," I said innocently, but deeply, firmly, and quite loud, making sure that I made eye contact with her so she knew exactly what I was trying
to do. "I'm so sorry I didn't see you when I walked in here, I ran into Ken and Ronald and ended up chatting with them. When they saw me they were like
'Hey Rod! Over here!' Since I didn't see you I hung out with them for a while. I think I need to be flogged, though I think I prefer a spanking (smirk or
eye wink)."
You'll notice that I found a way to include my name in my initial approach so she would know my name. A couple of seconds passed and those two seconds felt
like an hour as I wasn't sure if she would play along, not that it really mattered. Most women usually do because they pick up on subtle clues, cues, and
hints far better than men do. This was one of those times. "I was wondering where you were honey," she said, trying her hardest not to laugh.
"Oh," started the man who was bothering her, "If you were expecting someone why didn't you say anything?"
I didn't want his badgering to continue so I simply looked at him, then looked at her, then looked at him and said, "Hey buddy, if you don't mind, I'd like
to spend a moment alone with my fiancée."
He knew that he had lost. "Oh man, sorry. Later." And off he went.
As he was making his way out of our little circle, I leaned in and whispered in her ear, "Ok, once he's out of sight, I'm going back to my friends. By the
way, my name really IS Rod." Then I grabbed a stool, gave her a wink, and she leaned into my direction and whispered, "Thank you." Sometimes the damsel in
distress that you saved appreciates what you did and prefers that you be on your way, but sometimes they don't want you to leave. "My name is Jessica," she
continued, "Do you really have to leave? Why don't you hang out for a bit?" Aha!
"So Rod, what is it that you do?", Jessica asked with a sincerity not usually found in these kind of places. Normally I don't like telling women what I do
for a living until after a few dates, but it's only a guideline, not some rule written in stone. I like to go with my gut most of the time, since that is a
sign that a person's game has evolved. Jessica was beautiful and she had this very innocent, cute face that made me want to protect her, this was
evolutionary psychology and biology at work, not my inner wussbag coming out. One has to keep that under control at all times during an initial meeting with
a stranger.
"Let's just say that I help men figure out what they really want out of life," I said with a grin on my face. She accepted that for the time being and we
began talking about that. Eventually I asked her what she thought a healthy, attractive, mature woman wants in a man. "Leave out the stuff about 'I like to
laugh' or a 'man who knows how to treat a lady' type stuff. I'm looking for specifics."
"Well," Jessica started, "You observed one thing we don't like and that is to keep trying to pick up on us after we've made it clear we're not interested.
Sometimes I want to go out and not want to meet new people. Sometimes I just want a drink or dance or just hang out. I hate it when a man is too pushy."
"Please continue, this is fascinating," I remarked.
"I have a part-time job that pays really well, so I don't need a man to help me out financially in any way," Jessica continued on with a look of serious
passion in her face. "You know what I think most 'healthy' women want? They want a man who can take care of himself. He might even be broke today but if
he has a career or is in school or started a new business, a woman can see that he has ambition and potential. I think a lot of women look more into the
future than men do. A man should be financially stable. That doesn't mean he has to be rich, he should be good with his money and not spend it on frivolous
things."
"You mean like a Coach hand bag, Mac make up, or Jimmy Choo shoes right?" I interjected with a teasing tone to my voice. Jessica giggled.
"Something like that, silly," I could tell Jessica was a fun gal. "I know one thing I like is when my man plans out a whole evening for both us. I like it
when he plans ahead. I have a friend named Monica who was dating this really unattractive man, but she didn't care. If you can make her laugh she is all
yours. Tell your clients that if a woman is laughing at his jokes then she likes him."
"So," I chimed in, "What you're really looking for is a confident man who has a plan for his life, has potential, a sense of humor, financially stable, and
knows how to make a woman feel sexy and good, right?"
"Absolutely!" Jessica exclaimed.
You Are Not Special
You Are Not Special
by: Joseph Matthews
I want to share with you a few emails I've gotten from fans of my site which I find to be quite troubling...
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Hi Joseph,
When I would learn these openers and what to say the women instantly could smell that it is NOT ME who had originally these ideas. It wouldn't be myself who created these lines. They would reject me faster as I could imagine. So how should this whole thing work ???
Honestly Joe, if I would try one of these openers they would instantly laugh and reject me because they could smell that I learned these sentences.
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This type of e-mail is not an isolated instance. I get many e-mails from guys saying things like:
"I like your tactics, but they won't work for me."
"If I tried something like this, I'd get laughed at and rejected."
"If I actually approached a woman with this material, I'd spontaneously combust, scanners-style."
Well, you get the idea...
When I e-mail these guys back asking if they've actually *bothered* to go out and try my techniques, the answers are usually always:
"No. I just KNOW it won't work."
Well, for those of you out there who think this way, I have a secret I want to share with you...
YOU ARE NOT A SPECIAL CASE!
Seriously, most guys who have the toughest time with women think that no matter what they study, it won't work for them because their case is unique and different from every other guy out there.
Well, I'm here to tell you you're wrong.
I've learned through experience that most guys are not very different from each other, just as most girls aren't very different from each other. In fact, a friend of mine summed it up best when he said:
"All women are different. But not THAT different."
The same goes for us dudes.
We all have the same fears and insecurities. We just deal with them differently. Most guys deal by shutting down and not even trying to improve.
Rather, they take the easy way out and just blame the world, other women, their circumstances, etc.
They even blame themselves, yet they prefer to beat themselves up rather than take responsibility to IMPROVE their circumstance.
There's a name for that type of guy, and it's:
L-O-S-E-R
But the thing is, they don't have to stay that way. All it requires is a little hard work and effort on their part to CHANGE THEIR LIFE FOR THE BETTER!
In my book, The Art Of Approaching, I give you SPECIFIC tactics on how to take the bull by the horns and improve your social life.
No one says it's gonna be easy. You gotta do the work. You got to get off your butt and do what it takes to get what you want! It can be difficult, but very rewarding.
If you feel you need a little help to get you started, you can find out more information here:
http://www.artofapproaching.com
It's time to change your life for the better, don't you think?
Wishing you success with women,
Joseph Matthews
by: Joseph Matthews
I want to share with you a few emails I've gotten from fans of my site which I find to be quite troubling...
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Hi Joseph,
When I would learn these openers and what to say the women instantly could smell that it is NOT ME who had originally these ideas. It wouldn't be myself who created these lines. They would reject me faster as I could imagine. So how should this whole thing work ???
Honestly Joe, if I would try one of these openers they would instantly laugh and reject me because they could smell that I learned these sentences.
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This type of e-mail is not an isolated instance. I get many e-mails from guys saying things like:
"I like your tactics, but they won't work for me."
"If I tried something like this, I'd get laughed at and rejected."
"If I actually approached a woman with this material, I'd spontaneously combust, scanners-style."
Well, you get the idea...
When I e-mail these guys back asking if they've actually *bothered* to go out and try my techniques, the answers are usually always:
"No. I just KNOW it won't work."
Well, for those of you out there who think this way, I have a secret I want to share with you...
YOU ARE NOT A SPECIAL CASE!
Seriously, most guys who have the toughest time with women think that no matter what they study, it won't work for them because their case is unique and different from every other guy out there.
Well, I'm here to tell you you're wrong.
I've learned through experience that most guys are not very different from each other, just as most girls aren't very different from each other. In fact, a friend of mine summed it up best when he said:
"All women are different. But not THAT different."
The same goes for us dudes.
We all have the same fears and insecurities. We just deal with them differently. Most guys deal by shutting down and not even trying to improve.
Rather, they take the easy way out and just blame the world, other women, their circumstances, etc.
They even blame themselves, yet they prefer to beat themselves up rather than take responsibility to IMPROVE their circumstance.
There's a name for that type of guy, and it's:
L-O-S-E-R
But the thing is, they don't have to stay that way. All it requires is a little hard work and effort on their part to CHANGE THEIR LIFE FOR THE BETTER!
In my book, The Art Of Approaching, I give you SPECIFIC tactics on how to take the bull by the horns and improve your social life.
No one says it's gonna be easy. You gotta do the work. You got to get off your butt and do what it takes to get what you want! It can be difficult, but very rewarding.
If you feel you need a little help to get you started, you can find out more information here:
http://www.artofapproaching.com
It's time to change your life for the better, don't you think?
Wishing you success with women,
Joseph Matthews
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